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Hello to you reading this piece. I am Eduke a 24-year-old female Cameroonian graduate. I am in a state of confusion, for certain, not alone. My confusion doesn’t stem from the fact that society has to make choices for me but that nothing the girl does seems correct to society.  Society tends to  judge me without questioning what she has gone through. I am sharing this story with you because almost all the ladies of my age face it too. Some at early and others at the older stage. What then is confusing me? Do I accept that young guy’s love relationship proposal, we work together, grow and settle down or do I go in for the rich old man, settle down with him, enjoy the money and live happily ever after?  Whichever decision finally make; society always judges. Dilemma of a 21st century Cameroonian girl is a story that…